Saturday, April 26, 2008

Tristan Joseph

Guesse this child already plays by rules that are entirely his own. From the moment he was concieved seems he has been in a hurry. Couldn't wait his obligatory three years like the other children, then he had the nerve to come before his due date!
Tuesday , April 15, started out normal. I took the kids to Coop and was feeling tired and impatient but nothing new really. After Coop we had lunch at the park with friends and my mother who had come into town from Kennewick for an appt. We then headed off the the midwifes for a weekly appt. were everything was deemed perfect. We discussed how much longer I thought I had and I stuck to my story of having at least two weeks and probably going into May. I then mentioned how Matt thought I wouldn't last out the week and when asked why he replied that he couldn't really pinpoint why it just seemed different this time.
Came home and blogged on another site, mentioned that I had been having BH all day long and that if they continued like that until his birth I would go nuts, still expecting to go another two weeks. Mom stopped by the house and we chatted for a few hours. She considered staying overnight but then decided it would be best if she headed back on the ofur hour drive home.
After putting the children to bed I ran out to indulge a craving for chinese food. When I came back home Michael was upset so I went to his room to comfort him. Sat down on his bed with him on my lap. When I went to get up I felt my water break. Headed to the bathroom thinking that I must be mistaken. My due date was more than a week away and I have always gone over due. Matt came and confirmed that it was probably my water.
Based on how quick my other deliveries were we switched into high gear and tarped the bedroom and bathroom, started filling the birth pool and the crock pots with water, put plastic under the sheets on the bed, made sure all the other supplies were ready and......... still I felt nothing.
Matt went off with the children to play xbox and I ate my dinner and then sat around waiting for something to happen. My water broke about 9:30 and I didn't have timeable contractions until after midnight. Matt finally started calling the midwives and friends about 1:30.
This labor was completely different. I have never had breaks before and am used to hard labor straight through. Here I would have about ten contractions and then a fifteen minute rest. Instead of enjoying the rest I was frustrated and pacing, wishing things were moving a little faster.
We finally got into the birth pool and things seemed to move a bit quicker. Pushing was once again hell....... How I wish we could do this without the whole pushing part.
Tristan Joseph was delivered by his Dad at 4:35 am. Seemed like a horribly long labor to me, but in perspective I guesse it wasn't all that long.
Having him at home was wonderful and perfect in every way. we were in a comfortable environment where we were in charge and were surrounded by family and friends. All of the children were there to witness his birth.
The next day Matt continued to talk about how delivering Tristan was the most amazing thing he has ever done and about how much "fun" everyone had and how they all "enjoyed" it. I asked him to refrain from using the words "fun" and "enjoy" in regards to the experience for at least a week.
Tristan is doing great and is such a laid-back baby so far. His siblings all adore and can't get enough of him and of course Matt is on cloud nine with having another baby in the family. Adjusting to five has taken a bit, but I believe we are beginning to get a hold on things.
I still marvel and am in awe at how blessed we are. Five perfect, healthy, happy children. I often find myself just holding him and looking at him in silence, wondering how it is that I and God have created something like this. I'm not sure it gets any better than this.


























Saturday, April 05, 2008

Update

It's been awhile so I thought I would get on and do a quick update. Not much has been happening and still no camera....... Things have been slowing down this last few weeks as we await the arrival of Tristan. Mom just doesn't have that much energy anymore. I am on a bulletin board where I have a thread to write about the pregnancy in the last few weeks and the birth. It's about the only place I update as of late. Here's the link, http://www.pregnancy.org/bulletinboards/showthread.php?t=265133
I am also updating our other two blogs, "home is where our heart is" and "leave your toes hanging out.

Friday, February 22, 2008

Field Trips

Recently we have been on a few great field trips and thought we would share. We spend a good deal of time in Seattle, but not on the waterfront. I never even knew this was here, but what a discovery. Odyssey is a hands-on maritime museum where the children get to do several interactive activities all with a focus on the maritime industry. I always knew Seattle was great but I don't think I ever fully realized how important the ports of Seattle and Tacoma are.

We also visited the Gasanko chocolate factory in Auburn. Here an official Chocolatier told us about the history of chocolate, it's origins and lots of other interesting facts that you never consider. We then got to go through the workshop and get a few treats of our own. I must say it was some of the best chocolate I have tasted.






This one isn't really a field trip, but we were very fortunate to be able to have The Reptile Man (http://www.reptileman.com/homenf.htm) come and visit us at our Coop. He usually does only large schools or groups. It was great to have such a small group because the children all got a chance to get up close and personal with all of the reptiles.
He brought the biggest snake I have ever seen in my life! He also showed us how a crocodile will pass out because of his blood pressure dropping when his eyes are rubed lightly. Very interesting. The children really enjoyed his presentation.

Tuesday, after Coop, we visited one of the Ted Brown music stores for a tour. I wasn't sure what to expect, but we sure got more than I could have hoped for. They started by letting the children all play the electric drums. We then went into a classroom where they showed us different instruments and talked about which families they each came from. At this time they let the children play any and all of the instruments, the sax, flute, guitar, electric guitar, fiddle, and so many more. There were probably about twenty different instruments. Next, they took us into the workshop and showed us how they get dents out of instruments and how they do sautering on the various instruments. Next we went to the pro audio section and all the lights and technical visual aids were shown. Lastly the kids all went wild on the electric guitar. We really had a great time. The baby was especially jumpy, as if he knew there was a party going on. http://www.tedbrownmusic.com/

Friday, February 08, 2008

Disapointed

I was very disapointed to hear today that Romney has suspended his campaign for President. The more I researched him, the more I found I trusted him to be the President this country needs for change.
His speech today convinced me more of that fact. When before has a candidate stepped down, not because he was so far behind there was no way a miracle would save him (Yes, Mitt was falling behind but not by that much) but because he thought it would be best for his country if his party was united behind one candidate. I truly believe he wanted to be President because he thought he could do good for the country and not out of self interest like some of the other candidates running. As Matt said though, the changes he wanted to make are changes this country needs, however, maybe our society is not ready to admit that. It's a long read, but never has it been more worth it.
Washington, D.C. – Today, addressing the Conservative Political Action Conference (CPAC), Governor Romney announced that he was suspending his presidential campaign for the sake of Republican unity and the future of our country. In 2008, Republicans must stand united if we are to prevent Senators Clinton and Obama from taking the White House. As a nation at war and facing uncertain economic times, the American people cannot afford the Democrats and their agenda for retreat and economic slowdown. With today's speech, Governor Romney outlined the significance of this election and the need for the Republican Party to remain strong. Governor Romney's Address To CPAC (As Prepared For Delivery): "I want to begin by saying thank you. It's great to be with you again. And I look forward to joining with you many more times in the future. "Last year, CPAC gave me the sendoff I needed. I was in single digits in the polls, and I was facing household Republican names. As of today, more than 4 million people have given me their vote for President, less than Senator McCain's 4.7 million, but quite a statement nonetheless. Eleven states have given me their nod, compared to his 13. Of course, because size does matter, he's doing quite a bit better with his number of delegates. "To all of you, thank you for caring enough about the future of America to show up, stand up and speak up for conservative principles. "As I said to you last year, conservative principles are needed now more than ever. We face a new generation of challenges, challenges which threaten our prosperity, our security and our future. I am convinced that unless America changes course, we will become the France of the 21st century – still a great nation, but no longer the leader of the world, no longer the superpower. And to me, that is unthinkable. Simon Peres, in a visit to Boston, was asked what he thought about the war in Iraq. 'First,' he said, 'I must put something in context. America is unique in the history of the world. In the history of the world, whenever there has been conflict, the nation that wins takes land from the nation that loses. One nation in history, and this during the last century, laid down hundreds of thousands of lives and took no land. No land from Germany, no land from Japan, no land from Korea. America is unique in the sacrifice it has made for liberty, for itself and for freedom loving people around the world.' The best ally peace has ever known, and will ever know, is a strong America. "And that is why we must rise to the occasion, as we have always done before, to confront the challenges ahead. Perhaps the most fundamental of these is the attack on the American culture. "Over the years, my business has taken me to many countries. I have been struck by the enormous differences in the wealth and well-being of people of different nations. I have read a number of scholarly explanations for the disparities. I found the most convincing was that written by David Landes, a professor emeritus from Harvard University. I presume he's a liberal – I guess that's redundant. His work traces the coming and going of great civilizations throughout history. After hundreds of pages of analysis, he concludes with this: "If we learn anything from the history of economic development, it is that culture makes all the difference. Culture makes all the difference. "What is it about American culture that has led us to become the most powerful nation in the history of the world? We believe in hard work and education. We love opportunity: almost all of us are immigrants or descendants of immigrants who came here for opportunity – opportunity is in our DNA. Americans love God, and those who don't have faith, typically believe in something greater than themselves – a 'Purpose Driven Life.' And we sacrifice everything we have, even our lives, for our families, our freedoms and our country. The values and beliefs of the free American people are the source of our nation's strength and they always will be. "The threat to our culture comes from within. The 1960's welfare programs created a culture of poverty. Some think we won that battle when we reformed welfare, but the liberals haven't given up. At every turn, they try to substitute government largesse for individual responsibility. They fight to strip work requirements from welfare, to put more people on Medicaid, and to remove more and more people from having to pay any income tax whatsoever. Dependency is death to initiative, risk-taking and opportunity. Dependency is a culture-killing drug. We have got to fight it like the poison it is. "The attack on faith and religion is no less relentless. And tolerance for pornography – even celebration of it – and sexual promiscuity, combined with the twisted incentives of government welfare programs have led to today's grim realities: 68% of African American children are born out-of-wedlock, 45% of Hispanic children, and 25% of White children. How much harder it is for these children to succeed in school and in life. A nation built on the principles of the Founding Fathers cannot long stand when its children are raised without fathers in the home. "The development of a child is enhanced by having a mother and father. Such a family is the ideal for the future of the child and for the strength of a nation. I wonder how it is that unelected judges, like some in my state of Massachusetts, are so unaware of this reality, so oblivious to the millennia of recorded history. It is time for the people of America to fortify marriage through Constitutional amendment, so that liberal judges cannot continue to attack it. "Europe is facing a demographic disaster. That is the inevitable product of weakened faith in the Creator, failed families, disrespect for the sanctity of human life and eroded morality. Some reason that culture is merely an accessory to America's vitality; we know that it is the source of our strength. And we are not dissuaded by the snickers and knowing glances when we stand up for family values, and morality, and culture. We will always be honored to stand on principle and to stand for principle. "The attack on our culture is not our sole challenge. We face economic competition unlike anything we have ever known before. China and Asia are emerging from centuries of poverty. Their people are plentiful, innovative and ambitious. If we do not change course, Asia or China will pass us by as the economic superpower, just as we passed England and France during the last century. The prosperity and security of our children and grandchildren depend on us. "Our prosperity and security also depend on finally acting to become energy secure. Oil producing states like Russia and Venezuela, Saudi Arabia and Iran are siphoning over $400 billion per year from our economy – that's almost what we spend annually for defense. It is past time for us to invest in energy technology, nuclear power, clean coal, liquid coal, renewable sources and energy efficiency. America must never be held hostage by the likes of Putin, Chavez, and Ahmadinejad. "And our economy is also burdened by the inexorable ramping of government spending. Don't focus on the pork alone – even though it is indeed irritating and shameful. Look at the entitlements. They make up 60% of federal spending today. By the end of the next President's second term, they will total 70%. Any conservative plan for the future has to include entitlement reform that solves the problem, not just acknowledges it. "Most politicians don't seem to understand the connection between our ability to compete and our national wealth, and the wealth of our families. They act as if money just happens – that it's just there. But every dollar represents a good or service produced in the private sector. Depress the private sector and you depress the well-being of Americans. "That's exactly what happens with high taxes, over-regulation, tort windfalls, mandates, and overfed, over-spending government. Did you see that today, government workers make more money than people who work in the private sector? Can you imagine what happens to an economy where the best opportunities are for bureaucrats? "It's high time to lower taxes, including corporate taxes, to take a weed-whacker to government regulations, to reform entitlements, and to stand up to the increasingly voracious appetite of the unions in our government. "And finally, let's consider the greatest challenge facing America – and facing the entire civilized world: the threat of violent, radical Jihad. In one wing of the world of Islam, there is a conviction that all governments should be destroyed and replaced by a religious caliphate. These Jihadists will battle any form of democracy. To them, democracy is blasphemous for it says that citizens, not God shape the law. They find the idea of human equality to be offensive. They hate everything we believe about freedom just as we hate everything they believe about radical Jihad. "To battle this threat, we have sent the most courageous and brave soldiers in the world. But their numbers have been depleted by the Clinton years when troops were reduced by 500,000, when 80 ships were retired from the Navy, and when our human intelligence was slashed by 25%. We were told that we were getting a peace dividend. We got the dividend, but we didn't get the peace. In the face of evil in radical Jihad and given the inevitable military ambitions of China, we must act to rebuild our military might – raise military spending to 4% of our GDP, purchase the most modern armament, re-shape our fighting forces for the asymmetric demands we now face, and give the veterans the care they deserve. "Soon, the face of liberalism in America will have a new name. Whether it is Barack or Hillary, the result would be the same if they were to win the Presidency. The opponents of American culture would push the throttle, devising new justifications for judges to depart from the Constitution. Economic neophytes would layer heavier and heavier burdens on employers and families, slowing our economy and opening the way for foreign competition to further erode our lead. "Even though we face an uphill fight, I know that many in this room are fully behind my campaign. You are with me all the way to the convention. Fight on, just like Ronald Reagan did in 1976. But there is an important difference from 1976: today, we are a nation at war. "And Barack and Hillary have made their intentions clear regarding Iraq and the war on terror. They would retreat and declare defeat. And the consequence of that would be devastating. It would mean attacks on America, launched from safe havens that make Afghanistan under the Taliban look like child's play. About this, I have no doubt. "I disagree with Senator McCain on a number of issues, as you know. But I agree with him on doing whatever it takes to be successful in Iraq, on finding and executing Osama bin Laden, and on eliminating Al Qaeda and terror. If I fight on in my campaign, all the way to the convention, I would forestall the launch of a national campaign and make it more likely that Senator Clinton or Obama would win. And in this time of war, I simply cannot let my campaign, be a part of aiding a surrender to terror. "This is not an easy decision for me. I hate to lose. My family, my friends and our supporters – many of you right here in this room – have given a great deal to get me where I have a shot at becoming President. If this were only about me, I would go on. But I entered this race because I love America, and because I love America, I feel I must now stand aside, for our party and for our country. "I will continue to stand for conservative principles. I will fight alongside you for all the things we believe in. And one of those things is that we cannot allow the next President of the United States to retreat in the face evil extremism. "It is the common task of each generation – and the burden of liberty – to preserve this country, expand its freedoms and renew its spirit so that its noble past is prologue to its glorious future. "To this task, accepting this burden, we are all dedicated, and I firmly believe, by the providence of the Almighty, that we will succeed beyond our fondest hope. America must remain, as it has always been, the hope of the Earth. "Thank you, and God bless America."

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Usborn book party

I am hosting an Usborn book party for a friend of mine and wanted to invite you all to take a look at their books and place an order. My children love these books and have a few recomendations.
Isaac recomends any of the dot-to-dot books. These are great because they go up fairly high in numbers and have a counting line at the bottom to help the children. We have had to put these in page protectors because Isaac will do them again and again. Michael enjoys all of the maze books.
Sariah recomends any of the "That's not my......" series. They are touchy, feely books with tactile surfaces on each page.
This is currently one of Serenitie's favorite books.
Here is the link, www.lorilarsen.com
enter the bookstore and then in the upper right corner you will see my name listed as a host. Just follow that link and place your order.
The show will be open until the 7th of February.
Thank you.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

President Gordon B Hinckley

It was with much sadness this evening that our family learned of the passing of our beloved Prophet. The 15th president of The Church Of Jesus Christ Of Latter Day Saints. He was 97 and died a few short hours ago.
At 97, I realized the time was coming, yet at the same time, he is one of those men who you just can't fathom not being on this earth any longer. He has been the prophet for the whole of my married life and the whole time Matt has been a member. He is the only prophet my children have ever known....
I rejoice to know that he is with our Heavenly Father and is being told by him that he has been a good and faithful servant.
Now, we patiently await as the Quorom of the twelve apostles chooses and ordains our next Prophet.
Our hearts go out to the members of the Hinckley family.
http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/news-releases-stories/beloved-church-president-gordon-b-hinckley-dies-at-97

Friday, January 11, 2008

Elections


This electorial year I am seeking to be very informed about the candidates and their positions so that I may exercise my obligation as a citizen to make an educated vote and not an emotional one. Pretty hard for me to do, especially this year. But, I am trying....

Here is a great site I found that reallly lays out the issues and where each candidate stands on them, http://www.cnn.com/ELECTION/2008/issues/issues.abortion.html

So far I am leaning towards Romney. I agree with his stand on every issue whereas with others I only agree on part. His track record is very impressive and the things he has been able to do in a variety of instances while in a leadership position are short of amazing. If he can make these kinds of turn-arounds in situations he may be just what we need for a turn-around in our own country.

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Found the Pictures!!!!

Finally! the disc somehow appeared at Matt's office. Never would have found it there! So, here they are, a little overloaded on the pictures.
We decided to have Sariah's B'day at the Seattle Children's Museum. We have a membership there and so we got it for a great price, plus free admission for twenty children and twenty adults. We had to bring everything but they provide the room and the clean up. It worked out wonderfully!
Sariah had a princess party to reflect her status in our family. Serenitie is more of a Tom Boy and while I love everything aobut her including this, I did long for a girl that played with dolls, Barbie, liked dressing up and didn't mind wearing dresses, even if it wasn't a Sunday. So, when Sariah came I was determined to get my princess.
The party was a ton of fun and it was great to be able to celebrate with so many good friends, many of whom we don't see that often. We stole an idea from another friend and printed out different pictures of Sariah. Her 3-D ultrasound, a few right after she was born, and so forth, documenting her first year. We mounted them on pink card stock and then laid them out on the table.





Sariah and one of her good friends, Brook. Brook is just a month older than Sariah and so far they get along great.






Sunday, January 06, 2008

compliments

Matt and I recieved the best compliment ever!

The midwives love it when we bring all of our children into the appts. Yes, a health provider that is actually dissapointed when you show up sans children, imagine that!!!

Last time when we were expecting Sariah they would hang out in the waiting area with the receptionist. She even helped Seri work on a report on space. (Seri was thrilled to go in this time and see her report still taped to the side of a filing cabinet).

Anyhow, it is a practice of three midwives and I finally had an appt. with the third. She apparently didn't know that I was back again and was surprised, I said something along the lines of "We like it so much here we just have to keep having more children as an excuse to come back".
The receptionist then looked at us and said "Well, in my opinion you are obligated to have as many as you can so that the decent citizens of America are at least equal to the number of derelicts".
Wow! I must say that is one of the best complements I have EVER been given :)

Saturday, December 22, 2007

Christmas Party


Matt was called as Activity chairman for the ward this past summer and this years christmas party really gave him a run for his money. Take planning food,etc for 250 people, a handful of people who start planning this in Sept., and my beloved but official procrastinator of a husband serving as their leader.........Yep, it was pretty interesting. After many hours of planning, frustration, more than a hundred phone calls, six fifty pound turkeys, three twenty-five pound hams, 300lbs of mashed potatoes, twenty boxes of stuffing, and our missing christmas tree (Matt decided to take all of the decorations off and donate it for the night for decorations) The night went perfectly!!!Here is the only pic that got taken. Not so good, but oh well. This pregnancy like many others shows in my extremely bloated face :( As for Sariah's hair, yes it is odd, but there is a reason for the point. I didn't start to do things with Seri's hair until she was probably two, and she has hated it from day one. Even now she refuses to let me do her hair and when I do win the battle she complains as if she is dying the whole time. So poor Sariah, when it came to her I swore I would do her hair every day starting with the day she had enough to do anything with. So far it has worked and she sits very patiently and still while I do her hair each day. The only trouble is when she gets mad at me, then she reaches up and pulls the hair band (along with quite a bit of hair) straight out.

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Seri

Seri recently joined a group for young women that I was a part of when I was a girl (IORG). So far she has really been enjoying it. A few weeks ago she participated in a workshop focused on leadership. The theme was "How to be a dazzling princess" and they had classes on public speaking, etiquette, posture, taking care of your body, being an effective leader, etc.... From the pics and her non-stop talking, it appears that she had a great time. The workshop concluded with them designing their own formals out of T.P. (not sure how "dazzling"that was) and what appears to be a huge T.P. fight. (she is the one in the pale green sweater)






Tuesday, December 18, 2007

It's a..............

Boy!!!!!!

Yep, the ultrasound and a cooperative child confirmed what everyone thought they "knew", the baby is definetly a boy! About twelve years ago when I was pregnant with Seri, a friend did the "ring trick". You dangle a ring from string over the females left hand and if the ring goes in a circle it is a girl, if it goes from side to side it is a boy. So with us it has always gone in a circle, stopped, side to side, stopped, side to side, stop, circle, stop, side to side, stop and then side to side one more time before finally stopping permanetly, ensuating that our birth order would be girl-boy-boy-girl-boy-boy. Well after Isaac we started thinking hmmm. Maybe it was accurate. Now that we are five children into the pattern that this superstition told us, it is kind of eerie....... So, for those who want to know, "will this be it?", according to "the ring" we still have one more boy to go. We'll see.

Saturday, December 15, 2007

The newest Olson

We went in for our dating Ultrasound on Oct 16 fully expecting to find the little "Lima Bean" blob that is typical of early pregnancy considering we had just found out we were pregnant about three weeks prior. Imagine our surprise when this popped onto the screen! Definetly not a lima bean! Turns out I was closing in on thirteen weeks when the scan was taken. Not sure how we didn't realize we were pregnant before ten weeks. The due date is April 24. Luckily I am able to go to the same mid-wives I had with Sariah and we will be having this one at home. Both Matt and the midwives agreed that he shouldn't be driving me anywhere this time. I am very excited now and am grateful to have this experience once again.
We are trying to get Sarah used to the concept but so far I don't think she gets it. Now that I am showing pretty well we will point or pat my tummy and tell her that there is a baby in there. She responds by looking at us like we are freaks then running off to bring us one of her baby dolls. Close, but not quite.

Pumpkin Patch

Once again it was time to head out to one of our favorite places, the Pumpkin patch and corn maze. As always we had a great time and this year the kids even made it through the second maze all by themselves with Seri guiding them! She was well equipped with a cell phone, however, thanks to last years incident. The crop wasn't as thick this year and much of it had fallen, we are assuming because of the rain and wind.
On the way home we saw a para-glider descending and were hoping to catch him landing. Turns out he was on a motorbike of sorts, I think you can sort of see it in one of the pics. Very interesting!









More of the Princess

I think I have ranted about this before, but man is our camera horrible!! Anyhow bad pics are better than no pics at all right? I am hoping to get a new camera for christmas (hint, hint, wink,wink).Not sure when this pic was taken or why they were out in the yard, but I love it.



Thursday, December 06, 2007

Tis the season

I promise to get some pictures up here soon, but for now here is a video I thought you would all enjoy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAckfn8yiAQ